Step by Step: We Can Do Brave Things
I’ll support you in creating new daily practices focused on self-care, boundary setting, and nervous system regulation so you can feel more energized, connected, calm, and joyful.
What Will You Gain From Working With Me?
- You’ll Get a Fresh Perspective: Using methods for presence and awareness, we’ll examine your daily tasks, relationships, and habits. You’ll get to know yourself better: What drains and recharges you? What connects and distances you? What crosses your boundaries and protects them?
- You’ll Rewrite Your Story: You’ll take the driver’s seat, and I’ll help you decide what to change and what to nurture to achieve balance and well-being. It’s your chance to reshape the woman you wish to become.
- You’ll Create New Routines and Habits: To translate insights into your life, we’ll incorporate new skills, tools, and strategies into your daily routines. I’ll be there with you, ensuring we persist, overcome challenges, face old patterns, and create lasting changes.
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What Can You Expect While We Work Together?
- Hands-on Process: We won’t “just” talk. I’ll guide you through practical tools tailored for you and integrated into your daily life. It’s about fostering new and healthier ways of doing, feeling, and thinking.
- Informed Approach: My approach is rooted in the latest research on women’s psychology, resilience, neuropsychology, nervous system regulation, habit change, and embodiment.
- Partnership in Change: I’m an expert in my field, and you’re an expert on yourself and your life. I’ll guide you through a process that provides valuable insights and tools. Ultimately, you decide what you take away from our work.
I am a versatile professional, blending the roles of embodied facilitator, feminist social worker (MSW), and cultural researcher.
With over a decade of global experience, I specialize in guiding women through transformative journeys, empowering them to break old patterns and embody the women they wish to become.
I empower women to navigate challenges confidently and authentically by prioritizing individual needs and boundaries.
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Some of My Tools and Methods:
I integrate talk therapy with other methods involving movement, writing, practicing, breathing, drawing, and more. I discovered this combination helps create palpable changes and translates the insights we gain in sessions into everyday life.
Here are some examples:
- Psycho-education: Understand how society, gender, your nervous system, and your individual psychology influence your lived experiences.
- Awareness Techniques: Learn different ways of increasing awareness and understanding various aspects of your life and everyday experiences and their connection to your well-being.
- Self-Regulation Practices: A set of techniques that help respond to everyday stressors and setbacks in ways that allow you to re-center, relax, focus, communicate, connect, gain clarity, and act efficiently.
- Effective Communication Skills: Develop and practice ways of authentic communication, boundary setting, asserting your needs, creating connection, gaining support, and more.
- Self-Care Habits: Identify what makes you feel better, practice self-compassion, and prioritize self-care practices.
- Emotional Regulation Skills: Explore ways to identify and express emotions constructively, foster emotional intelligence, and find healthy ways to cope with challenging emotions.
I offer a variety of tools and methods tailored to suit different needs and preferences. Your safety is my top priority: I’ll encourage you to try working with different tools while also respecting your boundaries if you feel a certain technique is not for you.
Who am I working with?
While my door is open for everyone, in the last 14 years, I have mostly worked with women who identify as:
Over Givers and People Pleasers
Striking a balance between helping others and self-care is vital. I support individuals in setting boundaries and prioritizing their well-being to prevent overwhelm and exhaustion.
Read MoreImmigrants
Balancing multiple changes in family, work, culture, and language without a supportive base is like walking a tightrope carrying heavy boxes. This journey lasts for years, requiring a special resilience routine.
Read MoreTrauma Survivors
Healing from trauma consumes many resources, leaving us exhausted between therapy sessions. I offer skills for regulation and resilience that enable you to resource yourself during your healing journey.
Read MoreChangemakers and Feminists
Advocating for change brings unique mental health challenges. I assist in overcoming stress, changemakers' burnout, and loneliness so you can continue your vital work.
Read MoreWomen at Work
Juggling daily tasks and challenging male-based workplace traditions is like working double, taxing both mentally and emotionally. I provide tools to thrive amidst this pressure.
Read MoreVolunteers
Demanding roles often lead to stress, burnout, and secondary trauma. My program equips you with sustainable support to prevent burnout and maintain motivation.
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What do people say about me?
“Tamar stands out for her active listening, empathy, flexibility, and willingness to understand and accept resistance, idiosyncratic, and diversity. She is clear, playful, very responsible, and with great initiative, she provided a safe and friendly environment where you can participate and get stronger”.
“Tamar has the rare ability to create a safe space where you can share ideas, feelings, thoughts, and frustrations and be sure you’ll be heard, and she’ll work with you to make sure you find the right ways for you to get better.”
“Tamar led the process emphatically and confidently and handled the sometimes-intense emotions and thoughts in a sensitive and supportive way, providing a safe space for change.”
Ways to work with me:
I currently offer online sessions available in both English and Hebrew, each lasting 60 minutes.
I offer a complimentary introductory session before we begin working together. This session allows us to get acquainted, discuss your needs, explore my services, and determine if we’re a good fit.
The duration of our collaboration typically spans at least 14 weeks. This timeframe allows ample room for developing and integrating new habits and practices. However, depending on your specific challenges, goals, and needs, the process may extend beyond this initial period.
I am committed to conducting “stop and check” sessions with you at predetermined intervals. During these sessions, we will assess our progress and discuss the best course of action. The collaborative nature of our work means that both of us play a role in evaluating and determining the duration of the process.
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Want to know more? Here are some FAQ
What experiences do your clients typically encounter?
The women I work with often encounter one or more of these experiences.
😔 Emotional Experience: You might feel stressed, anxious, easily irritated, or feel gloomy, numb, and apathetic. Maybe you find it hard to feel joy, love, connection, and empathy or experience mood swings.
💭 Frequent Thoughts: Thoughts like “It’s all too much,” “I have to fix this,” “I’m trapped,” “I have to get out of here,” “There’s no hope,” “Nothing works,” or “What’s the point?” may be frequent.
🤐 Communication Patterns: You want to connect and set healthy boundaries, but during interactions, you may stay silent, mumble, shout, or say things that surprise you. Things don’t go as planned, and relationships suffer or never form.
🙅Relationship Dynamics: You might feel misunderstood, unseen, or unheard. Maybe you feel lost in others’ voices, habits, preferences, and needs.
💔 Body Sensations: Tensed jaws, headaches, palpitations, tensed body, or maybe detachment, numbness, or exhaustion. You may oscillate between periods of high functionality and low-energy days.
🎨 Free Time: Recharging activities often get sidelined. You plan to prioritize hobbies, self-care, nature, etc., but it doesn’t happen. Or if it does, it doesn’t recharge you.
If this sounds like you and you want it to be different, my expertise can help.
How does a session look, and what happens between sessions?
During our session, we’ll spend some time sitting and talking. I may also incorporate writing, drawing, completing exercises, movement, breathing exercises, or vocal activities. If there’s anything you don’t want to do – we won’t do it.
I recommend scheduling sessions in a quiet, safe environment with privacy and space to move. Ideally, the room should provide enough space for you to stretch your legs and arms wide open and turn around 180 degrees. The more space available, the better.
Between sessions, I will encourage you to practice. This can take various forms but typically involves taking a few moments several times daily to engage in 1-3 minute exercises. I usually suggest setting aside 30 minutes for practice each day, even though the actual time may be less.
Remember to schedule a complimentary introductory session before we start. This will help us meet, discuss your needs, explore my services, and see if we’re compatible.
The duration of our collaboration typically spans at least 14 weeks. This timeframe allows ample room for developing and integrating new habits and practices. However, depending on your specific challenges, goals, and needs, the process may extend beyond this initial period.
I am committed to conducting “stop and check” sessions with you at predetermined intervals. During these sessions, we will assess our progress and discuss the best course of action moving forward.
What kind of environment do you offer?
When working with me, here’s what you can expect:
- Support: I provide unwavering support to help you navigate challenges, celebrate successes, and maintain accountability throughout the process, ensuring you stay on track toward your goals.
- Client Autonomy: You’re in control. I introduce new practices and habits in a non-overwhelming and respectful manner, honoring your boundaries. You decide what actions to take and how to approach them, ensuring they align with your needs and comfort level.
- Tailored Approach: My role is to tailor my expertise and tools to meet your unique needs and personality.
- Inclusivity: I prioritize creating a supportive, safe, and confidential environment where your stability and resources matter most. The space is trauma-sensitive and inclusive of everyone, regardless of gender, identity, class, sexual orientation, or ethnicity. All body types are welcome, and no specific fitness level is required.
- Holistic Approach: I take a holistic approach, acknowledging the interconnectedness of physical, emotional, cultural, and gender-based aspects of mental health. Addressing these dimensions makes the process more comprehensive, giving you greater control and understanding.
- Modern Tools, Simple Techniques: Grounded in the latest research on habit change, neuropsychology, and embodied resilience, my work offers simple, efficient, and easy-to-learn tools to support your journey.
I’m very open to hearing about the type of environment you need for a successful process and partnership, and I will do my best to accommodate that.
Are we a good match?
To ensure a successful collaboration, it’s important that we align well. Take a look at these key points to determine if we’re a good fit for your current journey:
- Desire for Change: You should genuinely desire personal resilience and change and be open to incorporating new practices and habits into your life to achieve those.
- Active Partnership: Willingness to actively participate in a partnership and dialogue is essential. While I bring expertise to the table, you are an expert in your own life. Together, we can discover the right resilience practices for you.
- Commitment and Practice: You must have the time and the willingness to commit to daily practice and be ready to take responsibility for your commitment.
- Embracing Variety: It is essential to be open to a diverse range of methods. We may use body-based techniques, movement, conversation, writing, critical thinking, visual tools, breathwork, and more. You’re looking for an all-encompassing experience.
- Curiosity and Readiness: It is crucial to be curious and willing to delve into the impact of factors like gender, culture, neuropsychology, and psychology on one’s identity and life’s journey.
If these points align with you, we’re likely to work well together on your journey towards change and resilience.
What are your approach and expertise?
I bring diverse disciplines and expertise to my therapy practice, ensuring that I can effectively address your unique needs and challenges. Here’s a brief overview of the areas I specialize in:
- Clinical Social Work (MSW): My training in clinical social work equips me to provide personalized one-on-one therapy sessions tailored to your specific needs and goals.
- Resilience Building: I focus on building and maintaining mental resilience. I employ a variety of evidence-based methods to help you navigate life’s challenges with strength and adaptability.
- Feminist Therapy: I incorporate feminist therapy principles, which acknowledge how societal factors such as gender socialization, biases, and discrimination impact women’s mental health. In our sessions, we work together as equals to disrupt traditional power dynamics and foster empowerment.
- Polyvagal Theory: Drawing from polyvagal theory, I offer insights into how the nervous system functions and influences mental health. Together, we explore practical strategies to promote mental well-being through nervous system regulation.
- Embodiment: Emphasizing the embodied nature of self, relationships, and mental life, we embrace the idea that meaningful change must also involve our bodies.
- Neuropsychology: Leveraging insights into the brain’s workings and neuroplasticity, we target stubborn patterns of thought, feeling, and behavior for lasting transformation.
- Habit Change: By retraining our daily habits and automatic responses, thoughts, feelings, and behaviors, we pave the way for sustainable change and personal growth.
- Trauma-Informed: With specialized training in trauma therapy, I provide a safe and supportive environment for individuals who have experienced traumatic events, helping them heal and regain a sense of control.
- Gender Sensitivity: My academic background in cultural and gender research informs my understanding of the unique psychological experiences of women, allowing me to provide culturally sensitive and gender-affirming therapy.
Each of these disciplines contributes to my holistic approach to therapy, ensuring you receive comprehensive support tailored to your individual needs.
Why do you emphasize habit change and practice?
Have you ever attended an amazing workshop or retreat where you felt different and did things differently? Have you read books, listened to podcasts, or followed social media accounts that offered insights and tips that resonated with you? But then, when you tried to implement those changes into your daily life, it didn’t stick.
Sound familiar? Well, here’s the thing: our old habits are deeply ingrained in us. They’ve become automatic, almost like second nature. That’s why effecting real-time behavioral change can be challenging.
Habit change serves as a pathway for gradually and safely incorporating new ways of being and doing into our lives. It follows the idea that simply thinking and talking about change is often insufficient. Practice is crucial.
Think of it like going to the gym. If you want to get stronger, you must work those muscles, right? The same goes for relaxation, creativity, motivation, and all those new patterns you desire. They’re like muscles, too, and the more you practice and strengthen them, the more you’ll see real change in your life.
This approach fosters genuine and lasting change. It’s a gradual process that helps you achieve your goals faster in the long run.